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兄失業母要求多付5千元家用 已婚港女需供樓拒絕遭斥不體諒
26 Jul 2021

 

講錢傷感情!有港女大呻,哥哥2個月前失業,母親遂要求她多付5,000元家用;礙於港女正與丈夫一起供樓,便拒絕要求,卻竟被母親斥責欠人情味兼不懂體諒,令她心感不滿,認為母親偏心哥哥。

該名港女在「香港討論區」發文,指哥哥在兩個月前被公司裁員,之後一直「Hea住搵工」,母親知道他現時沒有收入,無法交出家用,竟要求樓主多付5,000元家用。樓主對此感到不滿,直言已婚的自己「有頭家」,加上正與丈夫一起供樓,沒有「多餘錢拎出嚟」。

 

該名港女在「香港討論區」發文

 

不過,母親聞言後卻完成不接受,更斥責樓主欠人情味、未有體諒哥哥的處境,「佢(母親)聽到就話我冇人情味,明知阿哥冇工返,都唔主動去幫佢交家用,一啲都唔體諒阿哥」。母親又力數哥哥「點好點好」,認為「做阿妹要體諒佢而家嘅環境」。

樓主透露,哥哥一直不肯放下身段求職,不知道他何時才找到工作,又指從小到大,母親都較疼錫哥哥,批評母親偏心,「咩道理?阿哥嗰份我點解要畀?如果佢(母親)唔係咁偏心,我都會考慮吓,我最唔舒服個位係話我唔自覺幫阿哥畀埋家用。而家佢日日煩我,我就嚟黐線!」

不少網民看完帖文後,都紛紛同情樓主的經歷,有人更批評樓主母親不應單靠子女供養,著樓主「企硬」,「以香港過去40年的經濟發展,一個人去到60歲要靠仔女養,知唔知醜的?」;有人認為樓主哥哥應承擔責任、積極搵工,「這些是你哥的責任,冇工返都要自己搞掂佢。不用幫」、「問題在阿哥身上,交返個波畀佢」。

不過亦有網民指,樓主作為子女,理所當然有責任供養父母,認為樓主只是在找藉口拒絕,「家陣每個月畀$5千,唔係$5萬,出街食少餐飯,買少幾套衫,再唔係,一星期去做一兩日兼職都有,唔好講到冇能力畀」、「你當佢哋係父母就應該畀」。

 

資料來源:星島日報

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